''It was the most misconstrued, awful thing that was the best lesson we ever had, because we both went, 'Oh, people are actually [watching],''' he says. ''If you call the cops, somebody has to go to jail. But what happened to being able to have a fight and screaming and doing your thing, especially since the kids weren't there'' — together, Brolin and Lane have three teens — ''and then have make-up sex, and wake up and laugh about it? But no, it's a totally different deal now. It was really, really embarrassing when it happened. And we're both like, 'That's a bummer,' and it'll always be out there as people saying [with a menacing whisper] 'Watch out for Josh!'''